people pay attention

  Men as a whole are not caregivers to children, other than their own. In other words if a man
seems to really love to be around kids, you should at the least watch that person close. As a
43 year old man I don't mind kids but I believe most men would not go out of there way
to be around kids all of the time. As a adult you would naturally want conversation with
adults. There is a natural part of us that tells us that's odd. listen to your gut. When it comes
to a child better safe than sorry.